Homily for the Mass of Christian Burial of Fr. Roger Elliott, C.P.

I think the first thing Roger would want me to do is to wish you all a happy St. Patrick’s Day.

On behalf of our Passionist Community I want to thank you Winnie for caring for Roger during the time he had to spend in Philly in and out of the hospital.

This is a time of grief and relief. Certainly grief – Winnie, Mary and Harry you’ve lost a great brother and so have we. Your pain and sorrow is our pain and sorrow. This also a time of relief. We are grateful Roger’s pains and struggles are over. He had his own share in Christ’s passion. Now he is free of tubes, tests and treatments. It is good to know Roger is at peace, Roger is with God. He was a blessing to you and he was a blessing to his Passionist brothers. The soul of this just man is in the hands of God, no torment shall ever touch him. His going was a disaster but we know he is a peace, knowing the grace and mercy of God.

You’ve heard the saying, “always the bridesmaid, never the bride.” That was Roger. On several occasions he was nearly elected our Provincial, but never was. He was willing to serve as a Consulter when he was asked to do so. At our last chapter an individual who was running for Provincial said he wanted to be the only one in the Province who ran for Provincial more times that Roger. It brought the house down.

We were always trained to be preachers, preachers of the Passion. Roger’s first few years were spent in Toronto where he preached missions and retreats in the city and through out the province of Ontario. It was during those years the Roger and Justinian and I become life long friends. When ever Roger preached he preached the encouraging life giving truth –“for I am certain of this, neither death nor life, no angel, no prince, nothing that exists, nothing still to come, nor any created thing can ever come between us and the love of God made visible in Christ Jesus our Lord.

But his greatest ministry was within the community itself as he accepted the ministry of leadership. Our Rule tells us that any superior must give kind leadership, encouraging his brethren to active and responsible obedience to all the activities they undertake. The superior should listen willingly to the religious and encourage them to make a personal contribution to the welfare of the community and the church. A superior is not set above or apart from his community, he is one with his brothers, he ought to see himself as one who serves and exercise his authority in a spirit of service for the brethren. The superior is to be pastor and animator.

St. Paul of the Cross has a man like Roger in mind when he wrote those words so long ago. Roger certainly had all these qualities in spades. He served as both Vicar and Rector in Jamaica N, Y. He was the rector in Holy Family in West Hartford on two occasions. For 8 years he was a Provincial Consulter. He was the Rector and the Pastor here at St. Ann’s. As pastor Roger was the people’s priest, always available to anyone in need. Unfortunately he had the painful duty of following out the Bishop’s decision to close St. Ann’s school. A decision that pained him and the good people of St. Ann’s. Roger and his good friend Justinian Manning cared for the people of St. Gabriel’s parish in Boston before he returned to Scranton.

Roger has a great sense of humour and he loved it when the students in Jamaica would take him off at a party, imitating the way he spoke, his gestures, and always holding a yellow pad where he’d written his notes.Gerry Laba had him down to a t. He used to like to quote from the New York Times, but I don’t think he ever read it. Because of his own sense of humour Roger was often asked to be the master of ceremonies at dinners honoring priests and brothers celebrating anniversaries. When he up to speak we knew we were in for a treat. One of his best lines was “what can I say about Fr Nick Gill that he hasn’t already said about himself.’

And here we are to celebrate this funeral Mass for this faithful Passionist priest and friend.

The gospel I chose was part of that long conversation Jesus has with his friends the night before he was to die. In that conversation he tried to give them some explanation of what his own death was all about. I am going, through my death, to prepare a place for you. I shall return to take you with me so that where I am you may be too. That’s what Christian death is all about. Jesus Christ the conqueror of death and the Lord of life keeping that promise to each of us as he kept it to Roger on Mar 14th at 7:30 in the evening. I shall return to take you with me so that where I am you may be too.

So we can continue to celebrate this Eucharist giving thanks to God for the many many ways our lives were blessed through our own association with Roger and giving thanks to God for the life Roger now enjoys swept up in the everlasting life and love of God.

- Fr. Paul Cusack, C.P.

Donations can be made in Fr. Roger Elliott’s memory to the Passionist Retirement Fund. 

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The Beginning of the Resurrection – A Message from Fr. Rick Frechette

The time draws near, when Christ will be raised from the dead!

Great flashes of light, resounding trumpets, celestial music ringing through the plains and off the mountains – the chains of death are broken, in the twinkling of an eye.

Song, poetry and art from across the ages and the continents have offered magnificent portrayals of this jubilant moment, to quicken those of us who are still “mourning and weeping in this valley of tears”

I remember once seeing a moving painting of an angel struggling to pull a pale and lifeless Christ upwards from the tomb.  I have seen this image lived out in many a mother struggling to pull her dying child away from the nearness of death, and sadder still, in the mother who hopes against all hope that a last, vigorous embrace will restore her already lifeless child to her now barren heart.

The angel in this painting is revealing a mystery, showing us something like “the beginning” of the resurrection. It shows angelic work being done in the dark time, right in between redemption and glory. This great work of God in darkness gives rise to the light of wisdom and the brightness of eternity. Like the way that coal, under enormous pressure over time, becomes a diamond.

The angel in the painting speaks of other slower, humbler resurrections, from within the heart of darkness.

The forty-year resurrection of the people of Israel was a desert transformation that brought them from obscurity as slaves to architects of a civilized nation, founded upon a moral code, born of communion with the One True God.

The scripture tells us that Moses, their leader and father, died just short of the fulfillment of this long quest. At 120 years old, in sight of the Promised Land, he died in his full mind, and with all of his teeth!

Since so many people far short of 120 years have already lost a good measure of both mind and teeth, it is curious that this detail about Moses’ death became part of Revealed Word.

You can argue that if one has full mind but no teeth, the words spoken through collapsed and floppy lips would not easily convince someone that a full mind is present. Moses’ teeth were the frame though which he clearly pronounced, unreservedly, the ongoing revelations and wishes of God.

A Haitian Creole phrase encourages you, when you need to stand undaunted against very strong opposition, to “show your teeth.”

God’s exalted vision of human wellbeing, and the obligations that vision puts on us as believers, do not rise and fall with economic trends.  In season and out of season, in hardship and in plenty, when the sailing is smooth and when the going gets rough, God’s expectations and demands do not waver. It was clear to Moses that all of Israel was to be led to the promise land. Not select clergy, nor favored classes. Even the stiff-necked and rebellious were not to be left behind for the sea to close on them. It was all or no one, do or die, no one left behind.

Sometimes there were rivers, and sometimes Moses had to bring water out of dry rocks. Sometimes there were quail, and sometimes Moses had to make bread fall from the night sky. And all of this while tolerating times of rebelliousness against himself, even calls for his death.

In the darkness, Moses learned that anguish aimed upwards becomes prayer, and that heaven understands and delivers.

Poor Moses-he had to keep this up even in moments of doubt, frustration and rebellion against his own destiny.

When standing for a second time in the parched desert, between a large rock and his thirsty-unto-death followers, (and being quite unnerved by them), when told by God to strike the rock, he struck it twice out of anger. The people drank miracle water to satisfaction, but his melt down cost him his entrance into the Promised Land.

As in the time of Moses, our own worldwide worries and economic threats are not game changers. They don’t change one tiny bit God’s vision for us, and expectations of what we are to do. This is especially true for those of us carrying on the mission of Fr. Wasson. Our hearts and homes are full of orphans and vulnerable children. Our outreaches are all aimed at marginalized women and endangered youth.

We don’t say “let’s keep going, but with half as many in our embrace.” No, it is not possible.

We still believe in the small, slow resurrections, we believe in the work of God in the dark. We still send children like Chantal to the Dominican Republic for life saving heart repair, and we still pick up half dead women like Marie off the parched roadside where she lay dying, so they are not left behind.

Our anguish gets aimed upwards and becomes prayer. Water can still come out of the rock. The manna can still come from the heaven.

If we believe

We hit the rock twice at our own peril.

Thank you for sharing with us this clear vision of light at every step of the way.

Thank you, too, for showing the strong teeth of your determination all the way to the end.

It is precisely in the difficult moments, that we are called to make a difference.

A very happy and grace filled Easter wish, offered with much gratitude and friendship.

May your darkness be filled with angels, and your light bring radiant joy.

Fr Rick Frechette
March 14, 2012
Port au Prince

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Fr. Roger Elliott, C.P. (1930-2012)

Rev. Roger Elliott, C.P., former pastor of St. Ann’s Basilica Parish, Scranton, died on Wednesday evening, March 14th at St. Ann’s Passionist Monastery after a long illness. Fr. Roger was born William, on March 8, 1930 to the late Harry and Catherine Brice in Wilkes Barre, PA. He graduated from St. Mary’s High School and in 1948 entered the Passionist Preparatory Seminary in Dunkirk, NY. He professed his Vows as a Passionist on July 17, 1951 and was ordained to the priesthood on April 25, 1958 by the late Bishop Cuthbert O’Gara, C.P. After an initial assignment in the Passionist mission band Fr. Roger spent many years as a Passionist priest in community administration. He was assistant superior and then Rector of Immaculate Conception Monastery, Jamaica, NY from 1963-1971. He served as Rector of Holy Family Monastery in West Hartford on two occasions, from 1972 to 1974 and 1986 to 1990. He served as Provincial Consultor from 1974 to 1982. He was assistant superior then Rector of St. Ann’s Monastery from 1983 to 1986. Fr. Roger served as Pastor of St. Ann’s Basilica parish from 1996 to 2004. Other assignments where spent in the Passionist preaching ministry in Philadelphia and Boston. He also served as parochial vicar of St. Gabriel’s Monastery parish in Brighton, MA. Fr. Roger has resided at St. Ann’s since 2006.

Fr. Roger is survived by two sisters, Winfred Boyle, Philadelphia, and Mary Hoover, Doylestown, PA, and a brother Harry of Glenmore, PA., and several nieces and nephews and grand nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his sisters Catherine Elliott and Elizabeth Finn and a brother Thomas.

The Passionists of St. Ann’s would like to thank all those who provided care for Fr. Roger during these last months of his illness, most especially Madeline Burda and Francis and Donna Mahon. The community is most grateful for the care Fr. Roger received in the last weeks of his life from the nurses and staff of the Hospice of the Sacred Heart whose care allowed Fr. Roger to die with dignity and peace.

Fr. Rogers’ body will be received at St. Ann’s Shrine Basilica on Friday, March 16th at 2:00 PM. His body will lie in repose for viewing until 7:30 pm. This will be followed by a Wake service, lead by Very Rev. James Price, C.P., Rector of St. Ann’s. A viewing will also take place on Saturday morning from 9:00 AM to 10:00 AM. The funeral mass will be at St. Ann’s on Saturday, March 17th 10:30 AM, celebrated by Very. Rev. Robin Ryan, C.P., Vicar Provincial. Burial will follow at St. Ann’s. Funeral arrangements are being coordinated by Thomas J. Hughes Funeral Home, 1240 St. Ann’s Street, Scranton. Any memorial contributions can be made in Fr. Roger’s name to St. Ann’s Shrine Basilica, 1233 St. Ann’s Street, Scranton, PA 18504.

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